When Your Child Needs Help
Choosing what is best for you and your family can be daunting. Daily we often face small choices that affect our schedules, dinners, discipline, and even how to spend a vacation. There are times when we may have more demands on our time and family than we expect. When we have to make choices for the benefit of one of our children, it may affect the rest of the family. When There is A Concern There are times when our children need a little extra attention, maybe a lot more attention than our average days may require. Your child may be experiencing several issues:
What To Do What then? We, as parents, have to ask tough questions. What kind of schooling, what program, what therapy or treatment is best? How does it all fit in our daily life? Talk with schools, your child’s doctor, babysitter. Get as much information as you can about a concern you may have. Document everything and be prepared to advocate for your child. Finding Support Finding support from friends and family is a good beginning and will prove to be an asset. They can help you through these challenging choices. Included with friends and family would be the other parent. Your child’s other parent/parents may not always agree with you. Make every effort to work with the other parent, co-parent, or step-parent. Having the united front will benefit more than your child but your relationship with them and the rest of the family. Finding an agreement may not always be possible, but make every effort. Educate Yourself Only you, as parents/guardians, can choose. You have the right and authority to make these decisions for your families. Not only the right, the ability. Know your rights as a parent. Do not be afraid to ask hard questions and advocate for your child and family. There are many resources online and in your community that can assist. A little effort on your part can bring individuals alongside you in your journey. Take steps to educate yourself, consider your child and your family’s needs. Be confident. You know your child and family best. Challenge yourself and your family, but know who you are and what works best for you. Take every choice into careful consideration, make the decision and own it. If changes are needed later, address them at that time. Making Choices Making these choices can be difficult. There are days we may have a hard time choosing what kind of coffee to have or what we want for dinner. The more life-changing choices can are challenging, scary, and intimidating at times. Yet, the more difficult decisions and changes in our lives can often bring the most satisfaction and blessings. Step out in confidence and make the decision needed. The sooner you do, the sooner you will see progress made. Early intervention is the key. The sooner you address a concern better the chances of a positive outcome.
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AuthorDiana Austin is an author and speaker whose mission is to help children and their families to navigate the challenges of academic and social success, encouraging acquisition of life skills and a life long love of learning. She emphasizes school choice and academic partnerships stressing accountability for teachers, parents and child. Parent empowerment and finding the right fit for the child and family is paramount. Diana has her A.S. degree in Child Development with an emphasis on Disabilities and has her B.A. in Christian Ministries. ArchivesCategories |